Enables setting hatch linewidth in Patches and Collections, also fixes setting hatch linewidth by rcParams

[Impaler343]

PR summary

Fixes #21108 using the patch provided by @anntzer which I modified to pass tests. Need to write tests for:

• [x] Setting hatch linewidth in a Patch
• [x] Setting hatch linewidth in a Collection

PR checklist

• [x] "closes #0000" is in the body of the PR description to link the related issue
• [x] new and changed code is tested
• [N/A] Plotting related features are demonstrated in an example
• [N/A] New Features and API Changes are noted with a directive and release note
• [N/A] Documentation complies with general and docstring guidelines