Better relay management

[AnthonyRonning]

Please pull from the user's nostr relay list. I selected the outbox model but it's not pulling in all of my relays, some that I pay for so I want this reflected. The first load time of my feed was quite poor for 5 or so minutes.

Also, when I go through the relay page to start adding the ones I already have, it cleared the existing list that was already there. I think having to manage my relays when trying out a new nostr client is a bad experience.