Basic Splicing

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Basic implementation of channel splicing, with limitations (tracking: #1621). Support channel splicing between two LDK instances, increasing channel capacity by adding some UTXOs, resulting in a usable channel. Includes support for following messages: splice_init, splice_ack, tx_add_input, tx_add_output, tx_complete, tx_signatures, splice_locked.

The following limitations are acceptable, and handled later (it's always fine to include more right away):

• No quiescence is used/checked
• Only splice-in supported, splice-out not
• Splice from V2 channel only (dual funded), not from V1 channel
• Acceptor does not contribute inputs to the splice
• RBF not supported
• between two LDK instances
• Interruptions and restarts may not be handled
• Defer some complex error scenarios

Some prerequisites: #3137 #2302 #3294 #3295