Implement accepting dual-funded channels without contributing

[dunxen]

We split this out from #2302 for easier review and to address the common non-public API parts of the V2 channel establishment implementation.

This will allow the holder to be an acceptor, but not initiator of V2 channels. We also don't expose an API for contributing to an inbound channel.

The functionality to initiate V2 channels and fund inbound channels forms part of #2302.