Prevent the cookery from keeping all empty bottles

[Thodor12]

Closes #10360

Changes proposed in this pull request

• The cookery was holding onto bottles because secondary outputs in crafters are never tracked, so they will remain in the inventory of the crafter forever
• Extended pickup requests to supply an optional filter which the courier can utilize to see what items are allowed to be picked up. This way crafters can tell couriers to pick up all secondary outputs of the crafter.

Testing

• [X] Yes I tested this before submitting it.
• [ ] I also did a multiplayer test.

Review please