Support Orbstack on MacOS

[maxfenton]

Expected

lando would start and run with OrbStack as the running docker provider on MacOS, with its docker symlinked at /usr/local/bin/docker

Issues

• lando build cannot run unless Docker Desktop for Mac has been installed and run at least once
• lando start cannot run without errors like this:

  lando ERROR Error: connect ENOENT /var/run/docker.sock
    at PipeConnectWrap.afterConnect [as oncomplete] (node:net:1555:16)
From previous event:
    at Landerode.listContainers (/snapshot/cli/node_modules/@lando/core/node_modules/dockerode/lib/docker.js)
    at Landerode.list (/snapshot/cli/node_modules/@lando/core/lib/docker.js)
    at /snapshot/cli/node_modules/@lando/core/lib/engine.js
    at /snapshot/cli/node_modules/@lando/core/lib/router.js
From previous event:
    at Object.eventWrapper (/snapshot/cli/node_modules/@lando/core/lib/router.js)
    at Engine.engineCmd (/snapshot/cli/node_modules/@lando/core/lib/engine.js)
    at Engine.list (/snapshot/cli/node_modules/@lando/core/lib/engine.js)
    at /snapshot/cli/node_modules/@lando/core/hooks/app-find-localhosts.js
    at AsyncEvents.<anonymous> (/snapshot/cli/node_modules/@lando/core/app.js)
    at AsyncEvents.handle (/snapshot/cli/node_modules/@lando/core/lib/events.js)
    at /snapshot/cli/node_modules/@lando/core/lib/events.js
    at process.processImmediate (node:internal/timers:476:21)
From previous event:
    at AsyncEvents.emit (/snapshot/cli/node_modules/@lando/core/lib/events.js)
    at /snapshot/cli/node_modules/@lando/core/lib/app.js
    at process.processTicksAndRejections (node:internal/process/task_queues:95:5)
    at async Object.run (/snapshot/cli/node_modules/@lando/core/tasks/restart.js)  +6ms
  lando reporting error action to report=true, url=https://metrics.lando.dev, report=true, url=https://metrics.lando.dev +9ms
  lando reported data command=lando restart, context=local, devMode=false, instance=37ac58bbfe1d2edfdbd132cdd8e8d7d19993b33a, nodeVersion=v18.19.1, mode=cli, type=Darwin, platform=darwin, release=23.6.0, arch=arm64, isWsl=false, product=lando, version=3.21.2, message=connect ENOENT /var/run/docker.sock, stack=Error: connect ENOENT /var/run/docker.sock
    at PipeConnectWrap.afterConnect [as oncomplete] (node:net:1555:16)
From previous event:
    at Landerode.listContainers (docker.js)
    at Landerode.list (docker.js)
    at /snapshot/cli/node_modules/@lando/core/lib/engine.js
    at /snapshot/cli/node_modules/@lando/core/lib/router.js
From previous event:
    at Object.eventWrapper (router.js)
    at Engine.engineCmd (engine.js)
    at Engine.list (engine.js)
    at /snapshot/cli/node_modules/@lando/core/hooks/app-find-localhosts.js
    at AsyncEvents.<anonymous> (app.js)
    at AsyncEvents.handle (events.js)
    at /snapshot/cli/node_modules/@lando/core/lib/events.js
    at process.processImmediate (timers:476:21)
From previous event:
    at AsyncEvents.emit (events.js)
    at /snapshot/cli/node_modules/@lando/core/lib/app.js
    at process.processTicksAndRejections (task_queues:95:5)
    at async Object.run (restart.js), action=error, created=2024-09-04T17:54:28.132Z +0ms```