Update dependencies, Go version and backoff library

[dewey]

This is a chore I didn't get around to, if someone wants to tackle that please go ahead. There's some changes to the backoff library (github.com/cenkalti/backoff/v5) which we need to implement after updating the library.

[dewey]

I've started here, but got stuck in some protobuf dependency issue and the changes for the backoff library.

[wanix]

Hi, I had to update the GO version (not the latest but still an update compared to 1.21), may it helps: https://github.com/justwatchcom/sql_exporter/pull/158