Improve errors messages when golden fails to compare

[jkomoros]

Debugging a broken game in the other repo broken by 76af12a (which is part of #458) is a pain because when the move doesn't match it's not clear why.

Ideally we'd print out the log only when that error happens.

[jkomoros]

• [x] fix bug in out-of-repo pass game caused by 76af12a692012363690259eb7a1f4ababbb97c32
• [ ] More descriptive error messages about what was expected and what was gotten

[jkomoros]

The bug introduced in 76af12a is that dealActionHelper doesn't return destination, source, it returns playerState, gameState. For deal components that's destination / source, but for collect components moves it's source / destination.