Change default value for `SslContextFactory.renegotiationAllowed` to `false`

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Jetty version(s) 12.0.x

Description TLS renegotiation is the feature that allows (typically clients) to issue a TLS handshake in the middle of an already established secure communication.

This feature has proven to be vulnerable, and RFC 5746 fixes this vulnerability for TLS versions <= 1.2.

In TLS 1.3, the renegotiation feature has been removed.

We should change the default to false.