Accessibility Feature: Remove focusability from empty or specific header cells

[mikematos84]

Feature Check list

• [x] Agree to the Code of Conduct
• [x] Read the README to ensure the feature is not already present
• [x] You read Creating Issues, Features and Pull Requests
• [x] Considered the value versus complexity for all users of the library as well as library maintenance
• [x] Considered if this can be a storybook or documentation example

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe

Allow for disabling of tabbing on empty header cells so they do not get read by screen readers

Describe the solution you'd like

Allow the passing of tabindex to be passed through to TableCol cell so the user gains greater flexibility, or simple set tabindex="-1" if the content is empty

Describe alternatives you've considered

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