request: Support `--set-exit-if-changed` in `melos format`

[spydon]

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Command

melos format --set-exit-if-changed

Description

The --set-exit-if-changed flag from dart format would be good to propagate from melos format

Reasoning

When running melos format in CI you usually want to do a check with --set-exit-if-changed.

Additional context and comments

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