In Ascend NPU, stop workers together with its children processes

[majieyue]

What changes were proposed in this pull request?

Be adapt to Ascend NPU cases, to stop workers and make sure no remaining processes are using NPU

Why are the changes needed?

In Ascend NPU, workers will fork many child processes, and we need to clear all of them

Does this PR introduce any user-facing change?

NO

How was this patch tested?

UT

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 95.34884% with 2 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 80.57%. Comparing base (6764a09) to head (c2e69a4). Report is 104 commits behind head on master.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
dlrover/python/elastic_agent/torch/training.py	89.47%	2 Missing :warning:

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[BalaBalaYi]

repeated https://github.com/intelligent-machine-learning/dlrover/pull/1331