feat(ui-6240): accept collapsed status on resizer panel, during mounting and props change

[wiedld]

Part of https://github.com/influxdata/ui/issues/6240

Changes

Want to have collapsed state be set-able by the parent. See comment here: https://github.com/influxdata/ui/issues/6240#issuecomment-1307982949

Vid

https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/10232835/200699857-ecc54179-a584-43b5-8ef3-304840e5d40a.mov

Checklist

• [x] Updated documentation to reflect changes
• [ ] Added entry to top of Changelog with link to PR (not issue)
• [ ] Tests pass
• [ ] Peer reviewed and approved
• [x] Signed CLA (if not already signed)