feat: upgrade tanstack query to v5

Closes: https://github.com/blitz-js/blitz/issues/4188

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Latest commit: 41166b077189efe4de186c454e94a8fa39a8e578

The changes in this PR will be included in the next version bump.

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@blitzjs/rpc	Major
blitz	Major
@blitzjs/auth	Major
@blitzjs/codemod	Major
@blitzjs/config	Major
@blitzjs/generator	Major
next-blitz-auth	Patch

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!preview tanstack-query-5

Snapshot Release tanstack-query-5

It would be great to read more about your thinking on when to use useQuery and when to use useSuspenseQuery from a Blitz-Tanstack-Query-Bestpractice point of view once this is lands.

@tordans yeah for sure, I am working on a small writeup to post in the docs + in the release notes for this major