refactor(mobile): Use hooks to manage Chewie controller for video

[martyfuhry]

• Also changes to using delayed loading throbbers
• Fixes an issue where videos would not play in immersive mode by default
• Changes the default hide controls timer to 1.5 seconds to more closely match "the app that shall not be named"
• Changes the overlay loading to use a delayed loading

This was all to improve the asset video playback experience while navigating the main timeline.

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[alextran1502]

When you click on a video, I see that it is immediately in the immersive mode. Tapping on the screen, the control interface shows briefly and returns to the immersive mode. I think this is a bit inconvenient if you want to share a video, because you will have to aim to the middle of the screen to tap and then hit the pause button to get the control interface to show up

[martyfuhry]

That is definitely a bug. The intended behavior is for the controls to show for the hideControlsTimer duration, but they are hiding immediately. I will fix that, thanks!

[martyfuhry]

Rebased and working well on my end here! Ready for another round of review.