Share library patching code between checks.py and patch_libraries.py

[jennifer-richards]

Description

The code to apply our custom patches to libraries in checks.py and the patch_libraries management command does the same thing but handles errors in different ways. These should share code rather than doing it twice.

Probably makes sense to handle along with #7365.

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