Add more support for first time derivatives with AD

[GiudGiud]

Motivation

Numerous things don't work the same as without AD currently:

• no adCoupledDot routine in Coupleable
• no support for getting DoFs dot (related)
• no support for getting DoFs dot for nodes

Potentially issue for ElemFace and LowerD, though they dont have a computeLowerD in the VariableData member so it's organized differently

Design

Implement more routines. Be careful of issues like:

• if computenodalvalue is not implemented for setting DoF dots, anyone requesting dof_dots get the results from the previous elemental call!

Impact

More support meet user needs here https://github.com/idaholab/moose/discussions/28855