chore(dev-tools): get nix setup working on macOS

[cpcloud]

Get nix setup working on macOS. Most of the work needed was in poetry2nix, the main exception being updating the quarto package definition.

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[cpcloud]

Example of running duckdb tests on macos arm64:

❯ uname -mo; nix develop -c pytest -m duckdb -n auto -q
Darwin arm64
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