docs: dev environment setup for arm64

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Add docs for https://github.com/ibis-project/ibis/pull/8371#issue-2137604229 also include in general streaming docs, how to install java for flink backend see notes in https://github.com/ibis-project/ibis/pull/8371#issuecomment-1947604978

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