Change ProcessBesuNodeRunner and ThreadBesuNodeRunner to use DEFAULT_BONSAI_CONFIG

[macfarla]

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PR description

Fixed Issue(s)

Fixes #6583

[macfarla]

I want to run the ATs a few more times on this PR to make sure it's not still causing any flakiness - hence still draft.