Support AcceleratorConfig.use_stateful_dataloader in Trainer

[byi8220]

What does this PR do?

This PR does the following:

1. Add a new field to TrainerArguments.AcceleratorConfig, use_stateful_dataloader which when set to true passes through use_stateful_dataloader to the DataLoaderConfiguration used to initialize the Trainer's backing Accelerator.
2. Add a new field train_dataloader_state_dict to TrainerState, which is used to persist the StatefulDataLoader's state_dict at the time of checkpointing.
3. When resuming from checkpoint for a StatefulDataLoader backed Trainer, instead of the training dataloader skipping batches to resume within an epoch, have the train dataloader load the state_dict derived from the loaded train_dataloader_state_dict.

This PR was tested through the following:

1. Unit test TrainerIntegrationTest.test_train_and_eval_dataloaders_with_use_stateful_dataloader, which is a sanity test on the dataloaders used.
2. Unit test TrainerIntegrationTest.test_resume_training_with_stateful_dataloaders, which mirrors the other test_resume_training.* tests, asserting that resuming from checkpoint behaves sensibly, and that the saved checkpoints do contain saved state_dicts.

Minor changes: this PR adds dependencies on accelerate>=1.0.0 and torchdata>=0.8.0 to transformers and a minor issue with Trainer test cases

Fixes #31441

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