HHH-18885 Introduce DelayedOperation.getAddedEntry() for maps

[gtoison]

Same as https://github.com/hibernate/hibernate-orm/pull/9331 minus the unit test (because extra lazy maps are gone in Hibernate 7), to keep branches aligned

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https://hibernate.atlassian.net/browse/HHH-18885

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