Decouple backend specific config from guacgql cmd

[robert-cronin]

Description of the PR

Splitting out #2243 into two PRs, this one being the more aspirational change because it attempts to refactor more of the CLI towards modularity.

Some notes:

• I intended to restrict this PR to refactoring only instead of altering functionality, so if there is any change to functionality it was not intentional, and we should probably flag and revert.
• This PR attempts to decouple the backend implementations (including their arg parsing) from the core guacgql cmd code as a first step to better modularity.
• The main change here is: a new mechanism to register the flags (config) of the backends alongside the existing function to register new backends. This takes the arg for any specific backend out of the guacgql cmd.

PR Checklist

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• [ ] If GraphQL schema is changed, make generate has been run
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• [ ] All CI checks are passing (tests and formatting)
• [ ] All dependent PRs have already been merged