Add assertions in GetTableAmRoutine to check greenplum-specific tableAM routines

[reshke]

if somebody defines TableAM method in Greenplum, without specifying dml_init/dml_finish functions, this will cause segfault (for example, table_dml_finish call in ExecEndModifyTable method)

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