Make `maybe_open_context()` re-entrant safe, use per factory locks

[goodboy]

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As discovered and discussed in code review of https://github.com/pikers/piker/pull/331 during refactoring we can't currently support re-entrant usage of tractor.trionics.maybe_open_context().

This fixes that by using a per-target id(acm) lock table to avoid deadlock on the previous single global lock design.

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TODO:

• [ ] tests..

[goodboy]

Lol what's with windows CI all of sudden?