Generic equality should use the `SetEquals` method

[xp44mm]

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In .net runtime, there are many Set types that all have SetEquals methods. Generic equality should use the SetEquals method.

    let x = HashSet [1;2;3]
    let y = HashSet [1;2;3]
    Console.WriteLine($"{x=y}")  // false
    Console.WriteLine($"{x.SetEquals y}") // true

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[smoothdeveloper]

If this would come, the default analyzers that ship with the compiler should know about it:

if the langversion is < 9 and the fsharp.core version which ships this is used, it should hint that there is a breaking change in behaviour.

We should also consider generating fsproj with the fixed language version rather than latest, if we want to be super conservative and help people be the same, by default, and improve error message when features of new version would make some code compile, but it fails to compile:

Whenever a language version check is done in the compiler leading to an error, through some magic (of algebraic effect, or side, or changing SupportsFeatures call to keep track of things), it would add a final error message showing which language feature check was hit, and mention it in error message, encouraging user to adjust the language version setting.

[Happypig375]

Easily fixed with #1280