Use a consistent version solve across devtools_server, devtools_shared, and devtools_app

[jacob314]

Investigate doing something like what flutter/flutter does - solve for related packages at once, and them move those versions into the related pubspec / lock files. This is probably not very high priority as we lock the versions of devtools_shared, devtools_common, and devtools_server to exactly match but this could help for some confusing edge cases where we might have a slightly different vm_service version on the server and app depending on how version solving went.

Related PR: https://github.com/flutter/devtools/pull/2229