More checks on numeric input for `zstd` CLI

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Closes https://github.com/facebook/zstd/issues/3070

• Added check for a possible invalid combination of numeric values in zstd CLI
• Does not perfectly cover all invalid combinations, but it's better than before
• Added some tests
• Slightly changes --memory, --memlimit and --memlimit-decompress to only be used with = at the end of the parameter
• memLimit type changed from unsigned to size_t to be more in line with srcSizeHint, as both refer to memory values