fix(oss): Trim OSS feature set to disable internal-only features

[ben--]

The internal build of EdenFS depends on a number of tools/libraries that are either tightly-coupled to internal infrastructure or can't be open sourced for other reasons.

This diff turns off three feature sets:

• Monitoring
• Telemetry
• Use Case management

and delinks two libraries that are only used for benchmarks:

• //common/rust/lmdb
• //common/rust/rocksdb

Tested through building Sapling/EdenFS (requires other fixes to run clean):

act --container-architecture linux/x86_64 -W .github/workflows/edenfs_linux.yml

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