third occurence of heading with the same title cannot be referenced, `[myst.xref_missing]`

[ClementPinard]

What version of myst-parser are you using?

2.0.0

What version dependencies are you using?

sphinx : 6.2.1 docutils 0.19

What operating system are you using?

Ubuntu 22.04

Describe the Bug

In the docs (especially here https://myst-parser.readthedocs.io/en/latest/syntax/cross-referencing.html#implicit-targets) it says that the slugs for headings matches the github slugger. As such, when headings have the same name, the second occurence gets a suffix of -1, and the third should get -2 and so on.

It looks like this works for myst parser but only for two headings. As soon as there are 3 headings with the same name (can happen with subsections that follow a pattern between sections), any cross ref fails

See how I get the warning 'myst' reference target not found: 'heading-2' [myst.xref_missing] even though the slug does exist in the html.

Expected Behavior

[Link to the heading 3](#heading-2) should link to the third occurence of the heading titled "heading" and not issue a warning

To Reproduce

This bug is very to reproduce since it happens on the live preview https://myst-parser.readthedocs.io/en/latest/live-preview.html#

# Heading

Hallo world!

[Link to the heading](#heading)

[Link to the heading 2](#heading-1)

[Link to the heading 3](#heading-2)

# Heading

The second heading

# Heading

the third heading

I kept the default configuration, i.e.

myst_enable_extensions:
- colon_fence
- deflist
- dollarmath
myst_heading_anchors: 2
myst_highlight_code_blocks: true

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