chore: clean up gatewayapi v1alpha2 helpers

[shawnh2]

What type of PR is this?

What this PR does / why we need it:

gwapiv1a2.BackendRef is an alias for gwapiv1.BackendRef

Which issue(s) this PR fixes:

Fixes #

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 0% with 3 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 65.84%. Comparing base (26ec49a) to head (8c793b3). Report is 8 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
internal/provider/kubernetes/routes.go	0.00%	0 Missing and 3 partials :warning:

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+ Misses       9335     9323   -12     
- Partials     1152     1155    +3     

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[shawnh2]

/retest