chore: use list instead of map for Provider Resources

[arkodg]

• list adds order stability

[zirain]

/retest

[cnvergence]

LGTM, tests need to be updated

[zhaohuabing]

/retest

[Xunzhuo]

@arkodg conflicts need to be resolved.

[codecov[bot]]

Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 54.00000% with 23 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 63.62%. Comparing base (3e70498) to head (fe19fe9).

Files	Patch %	Lines
internal/provider/kubernetes/controller.go	57.14%	7 Missing and 2 partials :warning:
internal/message/types.go	0.00%	8 Missing :warning:
internal/gatewayapi/resource.go	83.33%	2 Missing and 1 partial :warning:
internal/gatewayapi/runner/runner.go	0.00%	2 Missing and 1 partial :warning:

Additional details and impacted files

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##             main    #2658      +/-   ##
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+ Coverage   63.53%   63.62%   +0.09%     
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  Files         123      123              
  Lines       20169    20173       +4     
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+ Hits        12814    12835      +21     
+ Misses       6533     6516      -17     
  Partials      822      822              

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[Xunzhuo]

/retest