backendutil: FetchEnvelope doen't decode headers too

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FetchEnvelope uses headerAddressList to parse address lists.
headerAddressList tries to use ParseAddressList from net/mail, but this function knows almost nothing about charsets. So in cases like this one

From: =?ISO-8859-15?B?TWl0c3VoYSBNaXlhbWl6dQ==?= <[email protected]>

the result is just an empty slice, and there's no way to recover the information