Backport request, request-utils, store cache-handler changes to 4.12

[gitKrystan]

Description

• Backport @ember-data/request changes from main, including #9220, #9260, #9360
• Backport @ember-data/store cache-handler changes from main, including #9314, #9383
• Backport @ember-data/request-utils, including #9260

Notes for the release