[21696] Fix Secure Discovery Server client disposals guid and handshake_handle assertion

[Mario-DL]

Description

This PR addresses two issues regarding Secure Discovery Server

• Disposal guid was not beaing properly send from clients to server.
• Prevents an assertion triggering in the SecurityManager as a consequence of not being able to retrieve a new change in the participant_stateless_msg_writer

@Mergifyio backport 2.10.x

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