Implement Excel-style row and column highlighting when clicking TableView cells

[yhy949]

Currently, JavaFX's TableView only highlights the clicked cell itself. I'd like to achieve Excel-like intersection highlighting:

When clicking a cell, automatically highlight its ‌entire row‌ and ‌column‌ Highlight colors should differ from default selection (e.g. light blue for row, light yellow for column) Support dynamic toggling