chore: upgrade (flask-)sqlalchemy

[goerch]

I'm currently interested in getting the tests to run. It would be great to get some guidance if and how we should handle and test compatibility of the PR w.r.t. older versions of SQLAlchemy?

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Attention: 9 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Comparison is base (59db85d) 79.31% compared to head (67729a0) 79.28%.

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flask_appbuilder/models/sqla/interface.py	85.71%	1 Missing :warning:
flask_appbuilder/security/sqla/manager.py	85.71%	1 Missing :warning:

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[zacqed]

@dpgaspar would you be able to review this. many thanks