Only display trace menu option for uninstrumented peer resources

[JamesNK]

Fixes https://github.com/dotnet/aspire/issues/9015

Display only the trace option for uninstrumented peer resources:

Checklist

• Is this feature complete?
  • [x] Yes. Ready to ship.
  • [ ] No. Follow-up changes expected.
• Are you including unit tests for the changes and scenario tests if relevant?
  • [ ] Yes
  • [x] No
• Did you add public API?
  • [ ] Yes
    • If yes, did you have an API Review for it?
      • [ ] Yes
      • [ ] No
    • Did you add <remarks /> and <code /> elements on your triple slash comments?
      • [ ] Yes
      • [ ] No
  • [x] No
• Does the change make any security assumptions or guarantees?
  • [ ] Yes
    • If yes, have you done a threat model and had a security review?
      • [ ] Yes
      • [ ] No
  • [x] No
• Does the change require an update in our Aspire docs?
  • [ ] Yes
    • Link to aspire-docs issue (consider using one of the following templates):
      • New (or update) doc-idea template
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      • New diagnostic template
  • [x] No

[davidfowl]

This was a regression, hard to test?

[JamesNK]

Tests added