docs: clarify that filtering syntax is backend dependent

[JohannesMessner]

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Filter queries are passed on the the storage backend that is used, and therefore use the syntax that is supported by that backend.

This is explained on the page of each backend, but should also be mentioned (warning box or similar) on the general filtering page.

More generally, we should highlight all API differences that exist between InMemory and document store DocumentArray's