upstream patch to fix module record leak

[MylesBorins]

from @syg in #node-dev

you want want to cherry-pick https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/2414786 to the release that turns on TLA. there was a bug that leaks the module records of any async module with a TLA (it created a global handle that was never destroyed)

Just an FYI