feat: basic support of schema evolution in copy for parquet

[youngsofun]

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Summary

feats:

1. table alter and data append is committed together atomicly.

example:

# prepare data
create or replace table t1(a int);
create or replace stage s1;
copy into @s1 from (select 1 as a, 2 as b,  3 as c)

# ENABLE_SCHEMA_EVOLUTION
ALTER TABLE t1 SET options(ENABLE_SCHEMA_EVOLUTION = true);

# do copy
copy into t1 from @s1/ file_format=(type=parquet);

not supported yet:

• adding field in tuple type
• merge types, e.g. int8 and int16

Tests

• [ ] Unit Test
• [x] Logic Test
• [ ] Benchmark Test
• [ ] No Test - Explain why

Type of change

• [] Bug Fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• [x] New Feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• [ ] Breaking Change (fix or feature that could cause existing functionality not to work as expected)
• [ ] Documentation Update
• [ ] Refactoring
• [ ] Performance Improvement
• [ ] Other (please describe):

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