Tracking: enhance hash join spilling

[xudong963]

Summary

• [x] https://github.com/datafuselabs/databend/issues/14771
• [x] make partition number configurable: part of https://github.com/datafuselabs/databend/pull/14794
• [x] support left-related join spilling: #14828
• [x] make hash join spilling stable and add enough tests: part of https://github.com/datafuselabs/databend/pull/14794
• [x] support right-related join spilling: https://github.com/datafuselabs/databend/pull/14853
• [x] open hash join spilling by default: https://github.com/datafuselabs/databend/pull/14843
• [x] support cross join spilling: https://github.com/datafuselabs/databend/pull/14887
• [x] https://github.com/datafuselabs/databend/issues/14963
• [ ] support recursive spilling when the restored partition still can't fit into memory.

[xudong963]

Bug fixes:

• https://github.com/datafuselabs/databend/pull/14733
• https://github.com/datafuselabs/databend/pull/14794
• https://github.com/datafuselabs/databend/pull/14860
• https://github.com/datafuselabs/databend/pull/15089

[xudong963]

Refactor:

• https://github.com/datafuselabs/databend/pull/14743
• https://github.com/datafuselabs/databend/pull/14768
• https://github.com/datafuselabs/databend/pull/14919
• https://github.com/datafuselabs/databend/pull/14942

[xudong963]

Others:

• A repo to test databend's join spilling: https://github.com/xudong963/NOOOM

[bohutang]

Others:

• A repo to test databend's join spilling: https://github.com/xudong963/NOOOM

Great, I didn't know have this one. Can you port this into wizard? https://github.com/datafuselabs/wizard

[xudong963]

Others:

• A repo to test databend's join spilling: https://github.com/xudong963/NOOOM

Great, I didn't know have this one. Can you port this into wizard? https://github.com/datafuselabs/wizard

Will do it