DAOS-16766 container: don't create for cont lookup (#15670)

[wangshilong]

If container is not found from LRU, that means it was evicted from cache. This should only happens on container stopped or destroyed. don't create it again to avoid any race.

Steps for the author:

• [ ] Commit message follows the guidelines.
• [ ] Appropriate Features or Test-tag pragmas were used.
• [ ] Appropriate Functional Test Stages were run.
• [ ] At least two positive code reviews including at least one code owner from each category referenced in the PR.
• [ ] Testing is complete. If necessary, forced-landing label added and a reason added in a comment.

After all prior steps are complete:

• [ ] Gatekeeper requested (daos-gatekeeper added as a reviewer).

[github-actions[bot]]

Ticket title is 'erasurecode/multiple_rank_failure.py:EcodOnlineMultiRankFail.test_ec_multiple_rank_failure - daos container destroy DER_TIMEDOUT' Status is 'In Review' Labels: '2.6.3rc2,2.6.3rc3,2.6.3rc4,2.6.4-aurora.p1,2.6.4rc2,2.6.4rc3,2.7.101tb,md_on_ssd,weekly_test' https://daosio.atlassian.net/browse/DAOS-16766

[daosbuild3]

Test stage NLT on EL 8.8 completed with status UNSTABLE. https://jenkins-3.daos.hpc.amslabs.hpecorp.net/job/daos-stack/job/daos//view/change-requests/job/PR-17256/1/testReport/