DAOS-16469 dtx: properly handle DTX partial commit

[Nasf-Fan]

When a DTX leader globally commit the DTX, it is possible that some DTX participant(s) cannot commit such DTX entry because of kinds of issues, such as network or space trouble. Under such case, the DTX leader needs to keep the active DTX entry persistently for further commit/resync. But it does not means related modification attched to such DTX entry on the leader target cannot be committed, instead, we can commit related modification with only keeping the DTX header. That is enough for the DTX leader to do further DTX commit/resync to handle related former failed DTX participant(s).

The benefit is that VOS aggregation on the leader target will not be affected by remote DTX commit failure.

The patch also reduces DTX related warning to avoid log flood.

Allow-unstable-test: true

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[github-actions[bot]]

Ticket title is 'IOR Easy performance low with EC_16P2GX' Status is 'In Progress' Labels: 'daos_ecb_scale,pre_acceptance_issues' Job should run at elevated priority (1) https://daosio.atlassian.net/browse/DAOS-16469

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[Nasf-Fan]

Ping reviewers, thanks!

[Nasf-Fan]

Ping @daos-stack/daos-gatekeeper , thanks!

[daltonbohning]

Ping @daos-stack/daos-gatekeeper , thanks!

Ideally should have an approval from @daos-stack/vos-owners before merging, or I will defer to @gnailzenh on DTX PRs since I am not familiar enough.

[Nasf-Fan]

Ping @gnailzenh