fix: Support read preference selection for replica sets

[iacoshoria]

Add support for read preference selection from connection URI for replica sets.

See: https://www.mongodb.com/docs/manual/core/read-preference/

[cb-heimdall]

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[mdekkernet]

@iacoshoria Really need this merged, was stuck for a full day debugging why it always was using the Primary cluster instance for all connections.