release-23.2: sql: improve handling of contention on non-SQL keys

[yuzefovich]

Backport 1/1 commits from #126346.

/cc @cockroachdb/release

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Previously, if we encountered contention on a non-SQL key, it would result in an error being logged every time crdb_internal.transaction_contention_events is populated. Properly decoding non-SQL keys doesn't seem trivial (plus it wouldn't easily map to columns in the virtual table), so this commit instead adjusts the logic in getContentionEventInfo to do a best-effort decoding, with erroneous cases being handled by including a hint into the tableName string. This should remove concerningly-looking errors from the logs and possibly provide better observability too.

Epic: None Informs: #101826.

Release note: None

Release justification: bug fix.

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[yuzefovich]

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