Update `boringssl-fips` to `fips-20220613` tag

[reedloden]

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Go's BoringCrypto has moved to using BoringSSL's fips-20220613 tag.

Swap to using the same tag, which requires using Clang 14.0.x and Ninja.

This also enables the FIPS compliance policy by default when in FIPS mode.

Fixes #203.

[pmerrison]

I just wanted to let you know that the tag referenced in this PR now has a CMVP certificate in case it was a pre-req for this moving forward