`tools/publish-crates.sh` - Automatically find list of dependencies

[bfops]

Description of Changes

I've gotten tired of manually updating the ordered list of crates to publish, so I had chatgpt make a python script that will do it for us, given some root crates.

See how it's used in tools/publish-crates.sh.

I also made some tiny QoL improvements:

• Extra newline in output to separate the block of output associated with each crate
• Print which number crate we're currently on

API and ABI breaking changes

No user-facing code changes.

Expected complexity level and risk

2

Testing

The new script itself seems to work properly when I give the output a once-over. ~~I haven't tested the new tools/publish-crates.sh using it though (for obvious reasons).~~

• [x] I tested this in the 1.1.0 release
• [x] Example with just the CLI crate:

$ python3 tools/find-publish-list.py --quiet --recursive cli
primitives
metrics
bindings-macro
data-structures
sats
lib
sql-parser
schema
paths
fs-utils
client-api-messages
auth
cli

• [x] And using it the way it's used in tools/publish-crates.sh:

$ python3 tools/find-publish-list.py --quiet --recursive cli standalone sdk bindings
primitives
metrics
bindings-macro
data-structures
sats
lib
bindings-sys
client-api-messages
sql-parser
schema
table
expr
physical-plan
execution
query
paths
fs-utils
commitlog
durability
subscription
snapshot
vm
auth
core
client-api
bindings
sdk
standalone
cli

• [x] The output of running it on cli standalone sdk bindings is the same length as the "static" list of crates that was in publish-crates.sh (actually it's shorter by one, because there was a duplicate crate listed)