update 3rd party libraries, part2

[georgeliao]

WIP close #3568 git submodule:

• Original repo 1. vcpkg, updated to 2024.09.30.

vcpkg: 1. grpc, 1.52.1-> 1.60.0, ongoing.

Things about grpc: grpc has two layers of patches, the first layer is the commits on the top of the standard grpc release. The second layer is the changes in the vcpkg grpc portfile.cmake file.

1. Orignally, there are 5 commits on the top of 1.52.1 release tag, that is the branch. They are around two things. The first commits are about

snap:

1. sshfs, will be done it in a different PR.