fix: enable secrets deprecation flag in alpha by default

[jessesimpson36]

Which problem does the PR fix?

closes https://github.com/camunda/distribution/issues/275

related to #1868

What's in this PR?

In alpha, set deprecation feature flag to "warning".

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